Saturday, January 13, 2007 , 12:19 am
shyness

as an observer, i cant really figure it out. why are we, guys so shy? this is something really get through my mind. i am one, who is shy though. but why? why are guys so shy which we shouldnt be in the first place. as man, we cant be shy as in cant shy of anything unless someone pulled your pants down etc. nowadays, girls are even bolder than men now. what seriously has gotten into the nerves of the men. Shy. Define shy then.

SHY(adjective)
1. Easily frightened; timid; as, a shy bird.
2. Reserved; coy; disinclined to familiar approach.
3. Cautious; wary; suspicious.
4. Short, insufficient or less than
5. It is just shy of a mile from here to their house.
6. to avoid due to timidness or caution(intransitive verb)

Are guys easily frightened? Reserved? Short, insufficient? as an observer, i cant really figure it out. why are we, guys so shy? this is something really get through my mind. i am one, who is shy though. but why? why are guys so shy which we shouldnt be in the first place. as man, we cant be shy as in cant shy of anything unless someone pulled your pants down etc. nowadays, girls are even bolder than men now. what seriously has gotten into the nerves of the men. Are guys really easily frightened? Reserved? Short, insufficient? i dont think so. i think its something guys want to avoid due to timidness. especially when it comes to relationships. something like BGR etc. from what i see, some guys, i should really say, some guys are rather timid when they get contact to the ones they like. in fact, they can talk so well with those that they doesnt like. and yet they can muffle and starts to shake when they are in contact with the ones they like. why cant they treat it as someone you can talk. if its getting that way, how sure are you when you get closer. but i think it will change to a better when its closer. but what impression will u give that person? a kind of weird person. boring person? cant even communicate. hence girls will definetely will give the heck care attitude and talk to guys who can talk to them real well. ha. this is what i have observed around me past these years. seriously. to think of it, you will think that guys will become a coward when it gets to this stage. and, u will think more that guys are really useless somehow. maybe thats the reason why women are not getting married now in this era. it doesnt seem weird anyway. i have experience it before. shyness do kill u. i have been through two unsucessful confession. ha. guess it suppose to be one as the other other some sort of "not really counted confession". but, yes. indeed. throughout the days i met the girl, we didnt really talk unless its online or perhaps, over the phone. for me, to think of that, its kind of, no topics to talk whereas over the phone or net we can chat almost everything under the sun. but, its kind of weird if u understand it. for now, i suppose that a person should not be shy. and i would encourage anyone, if i know that he is shy of such circumstances. for me, i guess im not shy towards this kind of things anymore. haha. i dont know why. i can talk to her online easily now and i think, when get results will be fine too. she remembers me. haha. yea. im like slacking for now. god. i cant believe man. staying at home? goodness. haha. shes staying in CJC now for 1st three months. haha. ya. guess shes well there for now. haha. now im scared of the results. results kinda like out on feb 14. which is like, valentines day? OMG. but who cares . yups. guess thats all ba. =)

Thats all folks and netizens. Peace Out.